The Scandal of Forgiveness

How many times do you have to forgive someone who hurts or harms you?  I mean there must be a limit right?  You've got to protect yourself after all.  Forgiveness isn't easy - especially when the hurt is deep.  

One of Jesus closest friends asked that exact question - needing some parameters on how often he should forgive someone.  He suggested to Jesus - that 7 times sounded good - after all that was twice as much as the Rabbi's of the day were advocating.  He was probably floored when Jesus responded with - 77 times or 70 x 7 ... essentially saying there's no limit on how often you share forgiveness.  

Studies show that forgiveness is beneficial to the forgiver - it removes stress and burden - so why not just forgive without being asked - without condition - without limit?  That might seem ridiculous at best or impossible at worst -  but perhaps it allows us to wrestle with a significant question: 

If Jesus insisted that there be unlimited forgiveness FROM His followers - and if Jesus came to represent God, to show us what God is like - does that mean there is unlimited forgiveness FOR us?

So ... what if God has taken a huge risk and already forgiven you for all of your sin and now He's waiting for you to recognize that for the first time?  Or if you’re a follower of Jesus - He's waiting for you to recognize the full extent of His forgiveness for you?